Imagination, understanding, sensitivity, thoughfulness, and openness are essential for any kind of growth. Deep conversation between a man and a woman can be, or can inspire, an erotic experience, as can any shared experience that stirs one's sense of the infinite worlds within us. Why say all of this? To show that I am not content to live on the surface, or to be limited by conventional thinking (most of which is programmed responses), or to follow predictable patterns of behavior. The latter point may explain why I have avoided self-description. Lest you wonder, I am not unusual in appearance and could even be taken for normal.